I was conversing with an 80-year-old neighbor recently who taught and coached for decades in public schools in New York City and here in Virginia. When I mentioned having taught seminars in literature, history, and Latin to homeschoolers, he instantly brought up socialization, a word I’ve heard linked to homeschoolers since my wife and I began educating our oldest child at home 40 years ago.
“Homeschoolers shouldn’t go to public school when they get older,” he said, and I’m paraphrasing. “They’ve missed out on socialization. They’ve been with their moms, and then they’re put into school where there’s bullying and cursing. It even starts in kindergarten now around here, from what friends tell me. They’re just not equipped socially to handle that.”
As I’ve done on many other occasions, I defended homeschoolers against this supposed lack of social skills, pointing out that while they spend part of their days with their mothers or fathers and siblings, they also had friends, interacted with various adults, and participated in activities outside the home, like ballet, soccer, seminars like mine, and dual-enrollment classes at the community college.
But what I wanted to do was burst out laughing. Why on earth would any parent want their children “socialized” in a culture of bullying and obscenities? Continue reading

There are many voices promising that wealth is the path to the ‘good life.’ But, knowing your ‘why’ is the path to a meaningful life.



In 2007, President George W. Bush dedicated a memorial in Washington DC to the 100 million people murdered by communism over the past century. Here is a portion of what he offered in remembrance of those victims:
That was what I shouted, in the silence of my heart, when I finished Louis Markos’ online
The evidence certainly points in that direction…
Thirty-odd years ago, I taught adult basic education two nights a week in a minimum-security prison in Hazelwood, North Carolina.

This week an older reader, Ed, sent me an email lamenting the current state of education in our country. He gave several examples, including “I remember when I was about nine years old, my dad who didn’t finish the Sixth Grade had to help my brother with Eighth Grade spelling.”

Room 241, a blog maintained by Portland’s Concordia University, reports these dismaying
In the last fifty years, homeschooling in the United States has grown from a tiny movement composed primarily of conservative Christians and John Holt “unschoolers” to its present size of around 1.69 million students. Despite these numbers, and despite the fact that most Americans are familiar with the concept of homeschooling, some misconceptions continue to make the rounds. 
In the mid-1990s, Mrs. Irene Harrison (1890-1999) from Akron, Ohio stayed in my bed-and-breakfast in Western North Carolina. On her last visit, Mrs. Harrison, daughter of famed tire entrepreneur Frank Seiberling, was 105 years old. She was a petite, gracious lady of the old school who proved highly entertaining on some occasions. Once when I was passing through the living room, she was discussing politics with her son. I paused to ask her to name her favorite president…
A few years ago, I thought it was time to retire George Orwell’s 1984 to the attic. My years of teaching literature convinced me that Huxley’s Brave New World was more likely to unfold: a world in which an elite might control the rest of us through the erasure of history and literature, but who might also pacify common citizens through the diversions of sex, drugs, and electronic entertainment.