Over many years of my life – and specifically – during the lives of my granddaughters, I have found numerous versions of the following Message from the author – and my copy dates back to 1972. ~ Editor

If a child lives with criticism, he learns to condemn.

If a child lives with hostility, he learns to fight.

If a child lives with fear, he learns to be apprehensive.

If a child lives with pity, she learns to feel sorry for herself.

If a child lives with ridicule, she learns to feel shy.

If a child lives with jealousy, she learns to feel envy.

If a child lives with shame, he learns to feel guilty.

But…

If a child lives with encouragement, he learns confidence.

If a child lives with tolerance, she learns patience.

If a child lives with praise, she learns appreciation.

If a child lives with acceptance, he learns to love.

If a child lives with approval, he learns to like himself.

If a child lives with recognition, he learns it is good to have a goal.

If a child lives with sharing, she learns about generosity.

If a child lives with honesty and fairness, she learns what truth and justice are.

If a child lives with kindness and consideration, he learns respect.

If a child lives with security, she learns to have faith in herself and in those about her.

If a child lives with friendliness, she learns that the world is a nice place in which to live.

If a child lives with serenity, he will live with peace of mind.

Dorothy Law Nolte

“Talking it over with our kids means connecting in warmth and caring; and trusting our inner wisdom.”